So looking more into this. Dawn Margolis in the article "Dealing with Late-Night Visits from your Child", on a website called babycenter.com says that it is okay to have a reward system. It does work for some kids and doesn't work for others. She says that "its hard work to stay in your bed"; which I totally agree with because I let my son get to comfortable with coming into my bed. Also a mothers point of view is to let the rewards get bigger. So I might try this as well. If he sleeps in his room for a week give him something bigger than a sticker. Fingers crossed!!
Friday, July 13, 2012
Reward Chart
This is a mid week post but I thought I should put it up anyway. I talked to one of my military mommies. She said that one of the best methods that has worked for her and her son was a reward chart. So I thought well it cant hurt to try it. So we tried it last night. I told him before he went to bed that if he slept in his room all night then he could put a star on his chart. He slept in his own room all night long and mommy got to sleep in her room all night long!! I really hope this keeps working since it has only been one night.
So looking more into this. Dawn Margolis in the article "Dealing with Late-Night Visits from your Child", on a website called babycenter.com says that it is okay to have a reward system. It does work for some kids and doesn't work for others. She says that "its hard work to stay in your bed"; which I totally agree with because I let my son get to comfortable with coming into my bed. Also a mothers point of view is to let the rewards get bigger. So I might try this as well. If he sleeps in his room for a week give him something bigger than a sticker. Fingers crossed!!
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So looking more into this. Dawn Margolis in the article "Dealing with Late-Night Visits from your Child", on a website called babycenter.com says that it is okay to have a reward system. It does work for some kids and doesn't work for others. She says that "its hard work to stay in your bed"; which I totally agree with because I let my son get to comfortable with coming into my bed. Also a mothers point of view is to let the rewards get bigger. So I might try this as well. If he sleeps in his room for a week give him something bigger than a sticker. Fingers crossed!!
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Maybe you can research this idea of rewards (in general) for parenting dilemmas. What do the "experts" say about this incentive method?
ReplyDeleteAs long as it works! I did something similar for my kids and practicing their reading, but soon it turned into 'stars are boring, what else you got mom?'. I decided it was just going to turn into a big ole' blackmail mom for toys and candy thing, so we stopped before they got ahead of themselves. lol
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