I also have learned that co-sleeping is not so good for the
parents or the child. I was always very pro co-sleeping since my husband has
only been around for maybe 4 months, collectively, of the 29 months of my son’s
life. I felt like it gave me a little part of my husband when he was away; it
made me happy and comfortable. In my research I found that it is not good to
co-sleep. In the article, “Co-Sleeping (bed sharing) Among Infants and
Toddlers”, from Pediatrics, Dr.
Calvin A. Colarusso, says that in the 2nd year of life it is
important for children to explore their sexual identity, their independence, as
well as give the mother and father time for intimacy. As I read this, I can
totally agree with what Dr. Colarusso is saying and I think that it is a good
time for me to kick my son out of my bed. My husband will be getting out of the
military soon and we are going to need alone time to reconnect and my son is
going to have to get his sleep because he will be starting full time daycare.
So this is something we all need to get used to; sleeping in our own beds by
ourselves.
I have learned many new things and some of them are very
interesting. I got all of my questions plus some that I wasn’t even looking for
answered. My son and I are much happier that we are getting more sleep and
doing things independently. I could argue whether children or parents cause the
sleeping problems in the home. Also whether or not co-sleeping is positive or
negative for parents and children.
We have done it! In his own bed! |
Work Citied
Nancy G. Powers, et al. "Cosleeping (Bedsharing) Among
Infants And Toddlers." Pediatrics 107.4 (2001): 873. Academic
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